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    <title>Philadelphia Jewish Voice - Fadiman</title>
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      <title>Book Chat</title>
      <link>http://blog.pjvoice.com/diary/623/book-chat-by-leebarzel</link>
      <description>&lt;table align="right" hspace="9" vspace="9"&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;iframe width="280" height="175" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/J_ajv_6pUnI" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&#xD;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0425245136/ref=as_li_ss_il?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=loebfamilytree&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399373&amp;creativeASIN=0425245136"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://ws.assoc-amazon.com/widgets/q?_encoding=UTF8&amp;Format=_SL110_&amp;ASIN=0425245136&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;ID=AsinImage&amp;WS=1&amp;tag=loebfamilytree&amp;ServiceVersion=20070822" align="left" hspace="9" vspace="9"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&#xD;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;-- by Hannah Lee&lt;/i&gt;&#xD;&lt;p&gt;As a Chinese-American, I am neither white nor black and I am privileged to observe the nuances of race relations in this country as a bystander (except when my own racial heritage is a source of grievance). &amp;nbsp;I wonder if an academic awareness of an issue allows one to appreciate the inherent complexities?&#xD;&lt;p&gt;I read Kathryn Stockett's &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fgp%2Fyourstore%3Fie%3DUTF8%26ref_%3Dpd_irl_gw%23&amp;tag=loebfamilytree&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957"&gt;The Help&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=loebfamilytree&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt="" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" /&gt; and I was riveted but very perturbed by its central issue of race relations. &amp;nbsp;Set in 1962 in Jackson, Mississippi, a young white woman interviews and edits the painful narratives of black maids about their relationships with their white employers. &amp;nbsp;I &amp;nbsp;wanted to identify a black perspective. &amp;nbsp;Another friend cautioned me that I cannot generalize to all blacks, as African immigrants and people with Caribbean roots do not share the same experience as those descended from slaves brought to America. &amp;nbsp;No, indeed, but I was sure that a black person would respond differently to the book.&#xD;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;More after the jump.&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;br /&gt; I spoke with a black staffer at my local library, someone whom I've known for the 21 years that my family has lived in this community. &amp;nbsp;She did not enjoy the book as did the white readers who have praised &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fgp%2Fyourstore%3Fie%3DUTF8%26ref_%3Dpd_irl_gw%23&amp;tag=loebfamilytree&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957"&gt;The Help&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=loebfamilytree&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt="" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" /&gt;, launching it onto the bestseller lists. &amp;nbsp;She could forecast how the plot would go, and she skipped over parts. &amp;nbsp;Her niece was bored by it and never did finish the book. &amp;nbsp;I asked her if it would have been a better book if it had been written by a black author, but she demurred at that.&#xD;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0374525641/ref=as_li_ss_il?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=loebfamilytree&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369&amp;creativeASIN=0374525641"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://ws.assoc-amazon.com/widgets/q?_encoding=UTF8&amp;Format=_SL110_&amp;ASIN=0374525641&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;ID=AsinImage&amp;WS=1&amp;tag=loebfamilytree&amp;ServiceVersion=20070822" align="right" &gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0374525641&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt="" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" /&gt;Could the difference lie in perspective? &amp;nbsp;Events resonate more when they become personal, as Jews are instructed to imagine that they themselves are leaving Egypt during the Passover &lt;i&gt;seder&lt;/i&gt;. &amp;nbsp;Issues become more painful. &amp;nbsp;It took me a few years before I could follow a friend's recommendation for Anne Fadiman's &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0374525641/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=loebfamilytree&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369&amp;creativeASIN=0374525641"&gt;The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0374525641&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt="" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" /&gt;&#xD;&lt;br /&gt;, because the central character, a child, dies from an epileptic seizure and my child has the same disorder.I've read that people like horror films because they find it cathartic, a vicarious experience that leaves them relieved to be safe and ordinary. &amp;nbsp;I wonder if readers of &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fgp%2Fyourstore%3Fie%3DUTF8%26ref_%3Dpd_irl_gw%23&amp;tag=loebfamilytree&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957"&gt;The Help&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=loebfamilytree&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt="" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" /&gt; become more understanding? &amp;nbsp;Are some readers smug that they are not racist and do not harbor any prejudicial intent? &amp;nbsp;Or do they have a renewed sensitivity to insults to human dignity? &amp;nbsp;Do they speak out in protest?My Rabbi has noted that we do not feel pain to the same degree when a tragedy, a violation, happens to someone else. &amp;nbsp;However, the challenge is in the striving to maintain sensitivity and &lt;strong&gt;that&lt;/strong&gt; is a hallmark of a compassionate person.&#xD;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0061205699/ref=as_li_ss_il?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=loebfamilytree&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369&amp;creativeASIN=0061205699"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://ws.assoc-amazon.com/widgets/q?_encoding=UTF8&amp;Format=_SL110_&amp;ASIN=0061205699&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;ID=AsinImage&amp;WS=1&amp;tag=loebfamilytree&amp;ServiceVersion=20070822" align="right" &gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0061205699&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt="" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" /&gt;I attended a book discussion along with my friend who grew up in the South. &amp;nbsp;She found the novel realistic, and told me later that the others (all white women) did &lt;em&gt;not&lt;/em&gt; appreciate the fact that though the overt theme of the book was racism, the same kind of prejudice and peer control exist in other times, other places, including our own. &amp;nbsp;I attempted to point out that the new theory on bully-behavior management, is not to address the bully directly, but to educate the silent majority, that they can take control of a situation by speaking up. &amp;nbsp;The queen bee, Hilly, from the novel could not have continued in her role, if the others did not let her do so. &amp;nbsp;However, most people were too afraid, ignorant, or blind to the racial divide in a society in which they had a comfortable perch. &amp;nbsp;I wonder if readers would become more conscious and sensitive to injustice around them? &amp;nbsp;I made a reference to &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0061205699/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=loebfamilytree&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369&amp;creativeASIN=0061205699"&gt;To Kill a Mockingbird&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0061205699&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369" width="1" height="1" border="0" alt="" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" /&gt;, which is now a classic. &amp;nbsp;Did readers of the time immediately take to its message? &#xD;&lt;p&gt;The film version, starring Emma Stone as the ingenue reporter, Eugenia 'Skeeter' Phelan, Viola Davis as her source, a black housekeeper named Aibileen Clark, and Bryce Dallas Howard as their nemesis, the controlling Hilly Holbrook, will open in the local cinemas on August 10th.</description>
      <category>Lee</category>
      <category>Civil Rights</category>
      <category>Racism</category>
      <category>Stockett</category>
      <category>Art</category>
      <category>Book</category>
      <category>Book Review</category>
      <category>The Help</category>
      <category>Fadiman</category>
      <pubDate>Mon, 01 Aug 2011 22:30:06 GMT</pubDate>
      <author>leebarzel</author>
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